watched 摘星 again last nite.. got the website from my colleague n it somehow let mi recall the first time i watched it in NUS Science library.. those were the days.. still feel very sorry for the guy and really dislike that fickle-minded female lead.. but one thing she mention.. “对他太好， 反而对他造成压力。。 也许我还不懂得拿捏分寸吧” oh well.. jus feel that wats wrong with givin ur best effort in making a relationship work? As long as u put in the effort you shdn't feel stress rite? On the other hand.. ya i agree la.. cos when the other party is treating u very well.. u may want to do so too but somehow can't meet the std set by him/ her n so creating stress in urself... (sorry, i'm arguin with myself again.. if u guys are lookin at this part.. can contribute ideas too if u want... haha) So in this case, should we reserve some energy n not to be too involve with the someone in any case? Never ever put in much effort in a relationship anymore? hmm....... something worth considering and mayb a discussion with u guys..
Anyway, again.. some chinese words which i rem from the clip n song..

天下最遥远的距离， 是我站在你面前而你不知道我爱你。。。

伸手摘星， 未必如愿， 但也不会弄脏你的手... （所以爱情来了就该放胆去爱 - my add on)

我知道你很难过。。 感情不是付出真心就会有结果。。别问怎么做， 爱才会长久， 这道理有一天你会懂。- 《我知道你很难过》蔡依琳演绎。