In this current society, the relationship of a couple seems to be more complex than just you have me and I have you… Due to the commitment of each individual to his/ her work, the commitment to family and friends, and the need to be constantly stimulated (dun think Y, its jus a general term for everything like the need for to be entertained, to have fun yet have time for relaxation as well) to keep one lively, everything seems to be much more complicated when it comes to dealing with a relationship.
If a relationship only involve 2 persons, then soon, life will become boring as there’s only so much that one can think of and do together (plus the point that whether they want to do the things together or they have their own kakis for these activities.. make couples to be involved in common activities difficult.)
Like something taught in school.. “Love is not just going out as a couple but going out as a group.” So it’s important to break into each other’s social circle and try to merge the two social circles into one big one…
Likewise, when it comes to marriage, it does not only involve the couple but the two families as well, agree?
Only by taking the steps forward and try to mix with each other’s social circle will the relationship become stronger. Simply because they are able to participate in common activities and with common friends = building links and bonds between two persons. Then of course, the rest like having common goals or talking to each other and learn to understand and accept each other and compromise & accommodate each other are also important in a relationship (at least that’s my opinion). Failure to do so.. soon it will gets more n more difficult to maintain a relationship.

End of my tot for now………….